You have a soft and gentle mind. You tend to think good for everyone, even in adverse circumstances. You have a tendency to worry for even trivial matters which drains your energy.
The chart compatibility of yours with that of your husband is on the lesser side and it would take good efforts and initiatives from both sides for mutual understanding and co-existence, without that, it is likely that both could have some kind of friction.
You should try and clear the miscommunication whichever has happened and move on thereafter. You have a good life ahead.
Best Wishes.
Kanya lagna with the Lagna lord Mercury posited in the fourth house and seventh lord Jupiter posited in the fifth house in debilitation conjunct Sun; Sun Maha Dasha ongoing currently with Jupiter Antar Dasha; Non Mangalik.
Husband: Mangalik; Karka Lagna with the Lagna lord Moon posited in the fourth house and mars posited in the Lagna in debilitation; Seventh lord Saturn posited in the second house. Ashtakoota matching is quite less.