Your have an agile and volatile mind, which could often deviate from your choices, core principles and it could be difficult to get things and situations under control sometimes.
The current ongoing time is not conducive and favourable to you to take big decisions with respect major aspects of your life and if possible you may like to delay such things till Aug 2023 and thereafter when things could go in your favour.
Meanwhile you can tie things up with your ex and re-assess the situation once again just to be sure from all possible angles.
Scorpio ascendant with the ascendant lord Mars posited in the seventh house in Taurus; Moon posited in the ascendant; Seventh lord Venus posited in the eighth house conjunct Sun and retrograde Mercury; Mars posited in Taurus in divisional chart 9 also.
Moon major period ongoing currently and Jupiter sub period starts in Aug 2023.