As per your chart, you are quite fortunate with respect to your life partner in terms of prosperity in your life. Your role as a husband becomes important to take care of both sides.
You need to take the responsibility to balance out both sides by talking to both sides. You may also temporarily take some roles to perform at home, to convey the importance of family relationships. Remember communicating the right information at the right time is the key.
You need to put in your bit of attempts for some more time and you may decide on the future course of action after Dec 2022 when you have a conducive time as per your chart.
The 7th lord mercury is in Lagna along with the Lagna lord Jupiter with a neutral-enemy relationship. Mercury while being retrograde, is in its Pushkar Navamsha and also the rare Pushkar Bhaga, which would bring relief through communication.