You have a dynamic personality and so does your wife also. The clash of personalities is direct in your case.
As per the analysis of both the charts, the compatibility is quite less and there are bound to be differences in the matters related to love, temperament and mutual understanding.
Both you and her need to open up truly and communicate in a transparent manner to resolve the differences which is the only way possible in your case for having a leading a happy married life.
Tula Lagna with the Lagna lord retrograde Venus conjunct retrograde Mercury posited in the Lagna; Seventh lord Mars posited in the fifth house conjunct Jupiter; Moon posited in the tenth house. Wife: Kumbha Lagna with the Lagna lord Saturn posited in the eleventh house conjunct Mars and Venus; Seventh lord Sun posited in the Lagna; Moon posited in the tenth house in debilitation. Bhakoota and Gana Dosha present mutually.