After analysing your chart, we can say that, you are quite sensitive and emotional person. You take things to heart easily without analysis.
The current ongoing time is positive for you and you may need to wait for some time to get to know your ex's approval. The birth chart analysis of your ex could reveal further insights in to the way and direction the relationship would take.
As per your chart, situation could move in the direction in which it favours both the individuals in few months time.
Best Wishes.
Gemini ascendant with the ascendant lord Mercury posited in the eighth house conjunct Venus and Mars; Seventh lord Jupiter posited in the seventh house conjunct Sun and North Node (Rahu); Mercury major period ongoing with Venus sub period which spans up to Nov 2023.